Is it for fear to wet a widow’s eye That thou consum’st thyself in single life? Ah, if thou issueless shalt hap to die, The world will wail thee like a makeless wife; The world will be thy widow and still weep That thou no form of thee hast left behind, When every private widow well may keep, By children’s eyes, her husband’s shape in mind. Look what an unthrift in the world doth spend Shifts but his place, for still the world enjoys it; But beauty’s waste hath in the world an end, And, kept unused, the user so destroys it. No love toward others in that bosom sits That on himself such murd’rous shame commits. -William Shakespeare
It's more about who takes the dog for a walk. Or which one of us can leave work to get a kid to the dentist, the doctor, talk to the coach, the teacher, and don't forget one of us has a meeting one of us is travelling, running, writing, baking there's no time for talk of makeless wives. Fuss not. Certainly don't take offense. Taking "makeless" and "unused" personally costs time neither of us have. What luxury to have time to spend hurting from a phrase lost. True, the sting of things unused is legendary it's poison takes no time at all to spread. But our love towards our girls will never end. - Callie R. Feyen
"Fuss not." Callie, I anoint thee poetry marital counselor.
Callie,
Your sonnet reminded me of an acrostic I wrote about our years bringing up our five:
FRENETICALLY EXHAUSTED
Faster, faster
Run, run, run
Everything
Needs to be done.
Even if I'm out of energy
Tired, too bad
I can't stop
Cause
All these tasks
Literally
Logically
Yell at me until I drop.
E-v-e-r-y-thing
X/Y/Z
Has to be
Accomplished
Under
Strict
Total
Endless
Duress